The day I took the admission for MCA, I was under complete tension of; will I be able to clear the first semester? Will I be able to score good enough to go cleanly in the second year? The question remained in my mind for a long time; near about 4 months or I would say about 120 days or so! But finally, I found the answer... I didn't need anybody's help to find out the solution of my question, it was very simple and the answer was very clean, it was a complete “NO”. I had no choice than facing the situation and so I did. Still when the teacher asks me to do something about the programming, I just can’t do anything. I do only one thing and that is just sit in front of the computer and start staring at the monitor. Many questions create a new puzzle and equation in my mind and heart. I try to solve them while staring at the computer screen. The bending and reclining chair gives me more comfort in doing the process of solving equations and puzzles which had been screwing me. I guess, I’ve almost forgotten that, I have been admitted to this institution with a hell of 2 lakh rupees. I am not considering the pain of my father, my mother who always supported me, hammered me to get the proper shape; restricted me though I used to get angry but they never lost their mindset and never let me to be a real “stupid” kid. They scolded me at the right time but now I’m doing nothing than embarrassing them. My dear friends, who are my second life, gave me a huge support whenever I used to feel low, but… everything I threw in the burning coal. Many people are saying that I’ve become a careless and hopeless guy, but as I’ve promised to a very good friend of mine that, “this is my battlefield and I have to fight in it. No matter I lose or I win, I have to fight till the end” and therefore I call it as “life”. It’s going to be tough than it used to be, but I’ve to fight back. I’d like to say one thing to anybody who’s reading these crap lines of mine, “Nothing’s permanent, not even death…”
Friday, March 25, 2011
Monday, January 17, 2011
Subconciousness.
Why do bad things happen to good people? Does it mean good people are bound to face only good things or shall I say a person who faces trouble is a good person? I know it’s not a question to be asked not even a paragraph to write; in fact it’s just a thought came in my mind a minute ago… knowingly or unknowingly, I just started to write and every time I take a pause I wonder that I can explain my thoughts into words which is the first step for becoming a (good) writer. (That’s what I think). But why I started this with those good or bad things? But there is no need to ask this question to anyone else, because my inner infant is ready with holding the answers in his hand for my own (stupid) questions. Now, you must be thinking that, what my inner infant is answering to me? But actually, I’m also eager to know what is he thinking? (Though it’s my own inner infant!) But when he’ll give me the answer, I could have acquired comparatively good knowledge about writing…
- Mihir Deshmukh.
(22nd March, 2009).
Game Plans for Winning at Life
Rudy Ruettiger
Insight #1: Be the person you want to be. “Make the decision to take action and move closer to your Dream. Create daily success habits and surround yourself with information that will empower and inspire you.”
Insight #2: Use anger in a positive way to get results. “Anger is a normal reaction. It’s what you do with anger that makes a difference in your life … direct your anger towards a goal … use anger in a positive way to get results … from anger comes determination … comes triumph.”
Insight #3: It starts with a Dream. “Visualize your Dream and make a commitment. Having a Dream is what makes life exciting. Never underestimate the power of a Dream. It will change your life. A Dream gives you the ability to determine your future.”
Insight #4: Eliminate the confusion. “Find mentors who encourage you. The right information will eliminate confusion. Visualize exactly what you want to be … and focus on that … believe in yourself and don’t let anything stop you. Reinforce your Dream every day with positive information from tapes, books, and mentors. Each day you will get closer to your Dream. Eliminate the confusion and fears, and make it happen.”
Insight #5: The greater the struggle, the greater the victory. “Most people allow struggles and fear of failure to stop them. The key is to learn from your struggles and move on. Failures will make you stronger and give you the information you need to reach your Dream. Struggle will prepare you for success. Without struggle there is no success.”
Insight #6: Follow your passion instead of the dollar. “There’s nothing wrong with making money … but, it’s important to focus on your passion instead of the dollar. For me, decisions based on my passion brought me closer to my Dream, while decisions based only on money took me further away. If you focus on what really fulfils you, you will have success. The dollar alone does not bring happiness.”
Insight #7: Excuses will kill your Dream. “What we’re really talking about here is commitment. Until you make a commitment to your Dream, it’s not really a Dream … it’s just another fantasy full of excuses. Fantasies don’t come true because they’re not real, we’re not committed to them. When we make commitments, we eliminate excuses and they become Dreams … and Dreams are definitely real.”
Insight #8: Prepare for your Dream. “Preparation is what comes from struggle. Knowledge comes from preparation. These are the elements that pave the road to your Dream. If we do not prepare we will not succeed. Set your goals and pursue your Dreams with all your heart. If you miss a goal, don’t quit, reset it! You just need to learn more … step by step you will win!”
Insight #9: Focus on your Dream and Never Quit. It is always too soon to quit. If you quit, you can’t succeed. By achieving your Dream you will be an inspiration to others. You will set the example and make an enormous impact on the world. Make it happen!”
Insight #10: Always have a Dream. “Dreams give us energy to go to new levels. Dreams change lives … the power of life is in your Dreams!”
Rudy Ruettiger
Insight #1: Be the person you want to be. “Make the decision to take action and move closer to your Dream. Create daily success habits and surround yourself with information that will empower and inspire you.”
Insight #2: Use anger in a positive way to get results. “Anger is a normal reaction. It’s what you do with anger that makes a difference in your life … direct your anger towards a goal … use anger in a positive way to get results … from anger comes determination … comes triumph.”
Insight #3: It starts with a Dream. “Visualize your Dream and make a commitment. Having a Dream is what makes life exciting. Never underestimate the power of a Dream. It will change your life. A Dream gives you the ability to determine your future.”
Insight #4: Eliminate the confusion. “Find mentors who encourage you. The right information will eliminate confusion. Visualize exactly what you want to be … and focus on that … believe in yourself and don’t let anything stop you. Reinforce your Dream every day with positive information from tapes, books, and mentors. Each day you will get closer to your Dream. Eliminate the confusion and fears, and make it happen.”
Insight #5: The greater the struggle, the greater the victory. “Most people allow struggles and fear of failure to stop them. The key is to learn from your struggles and move on. Failures will make you stronger and give you the information you need to reach your Dream. Struggle will prepare you for success. Without struggle there is no success.”
Insight #6: Follow your passion instead of the dollar. “There’s nothing wrong with making money … but, it’s important to focus on your passion instead of the dollar. For me, decisions based on my passion brought me closer to my Dream, while decisions based only on money took me further away. If you focus on what really fulfils you, you will have success. The dollar alone does not bring happiness.”
Insight #7: Excuses will kill your Dream. “What we’re really talking about here is commitment. Until you make a commitment to your Dream, it’s not really a Dream … it’s just another fantasy full of excuses. Fantasies don’t come true because they’re not real, we’re not committed to them. When we make commitments, we eliminate excuses and they become Dreams … and Dreams are definitely real.”
Insight #8: Prepare for your Dream. “Preparation is what comes from struggle. Knowledge comes from preparation. These are the elements that pave the road to your Dream. If we do not prepare we will not succeed. Set your goals and pursue your Dreams with all your heart. If you miss a goal, don’t quit, reset it! You just need to learn more … step by step you will win!”
Insight #9: Focus on your Dream and Never Quit. It is always too soon to quit. If you quit, you can’t succeed. By achieving your Dream you will be an inspiration to others. You will set the example and make an enormous impact on the world. Make it happen!”
Insight #10: Always have a Dream. “Dreams give us energy to go to new levels. Dreams change lives … the power of life is in your Dreams!”
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
The Birth.
May 2, 1989...
It was a hot day in Solapur, and the clock was ticking on... There were many people inside the Hospital. Some were anxious, some were relaxed, some were gasping, some were preparing for something. There was a man who was standing in the gallery of the room provided by the Hospital. He looked at the clock, it showed 10:45. Three minutes later a tiny little sound came from the Operation Theater... The Doctor came out removing his surgical mask. He smiled at everybody out there, and replied, "Congratulations! It's a baby boy!"
So, this is me... Mihir, and this is how I entered this beautiful World! :)
It was a hot day in Solapur, and the clock was ticking on... There were many people inside the Hospital. Some were anxious, some were relaxed, some were gasping, some were preparing for something. There was a man who was standing in the gallery of the room provided by the Hospital. He looked at the clock, it showed 10:45. Three minutes later a tiny little sound came from the Operation Theater... The Doctor came out removing his surgical mask. He smiled at everybody out there, and replied, "Congratulations! It's a baby boy!"
So, this is me... Mihir, and this is how I entered this beautiful World! :)
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